How to Support a Friend Who’s Grieving a Pet

When someone close to you loses a pet, finding the right words can feel impossible. You want to help, but you’re afraid of saying the wrong thing.

Start by remembering this: you don’t need perfect words — just presence and compassion.

Here are some heartfelt ways to support them:

1. Say their pet’s name.
Mentioning their pet shows that you remember them, too. “I’ve been thinking about Bella and how much she loved those car rides,” can mean the world.

2. Send a handwritten note or small gift.
A sympathy card, flowers, or a keepsake like a Halo Frame can bring comfort and validation to someone navigating grief.

3. Listen more than you talk.
Grief needs space, not fixing. Let them share stories, cry, or laugh — whatever they need in that moment.

4. Honor anniversaries.
Make a note of their pet’s passing date or birthday and reach out next year. “Thinking of you and Daisy today” reminds them their love is never forgotten.

Being a kind presence can make all the difference — and sometimes that’s the greatest gift you can give.